Our weekend was a busy one. We visited my brother-in-law who has been battling with cancer since last Thanksgiving. We were so surprised to learn that his doctor has decided to stop his chemo treatment. According to my BIL, the doctor told him that if the chemo will be continued, it will just make it worse and shorten his life to three months. The doctor then told him to enjoy his remaining time of 6-9 months.
It's a devastating revelation for all of us because the doctor told us before that everything was great after his surgery, that the remaining cancer spots in his liver can just be treated with chemo. The doctor just pulled out that remaining HOPE we all have for my BIL. My SIL made some calls and she was able to contact American Cancer Society. They have an appointment sometime this month and we are all hoping and praying that there still hope and chance for my BIL to recover this battle.
The kids were so sad upon learning the news, they both love Uncle Dave and the thought that his days are getting short makes them so sad.
My husband's theory about it is that, maybe my BIL has maxed out his insurance already that they would no longer pay for any treatment. We are praying for a MIRACLE to happen, we all hope that my BIL would still be given a chance and get cured by this new doctor that will examine him.
Please include my BIL in your prayer, thank you so much!
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ReplyDeleteThis saddened me Mommy Rose since two years ago my youngest step-daughter died of cancer too. Your BIL is always in my prayer. ^_^
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So sorry to hear your family struggle, I will keep him in my prayers in hopes he will have a second chance with his treatments.
ReplyDeleteI am terribly sorry about your BIL. I hope they do something else and that they find cure. I'll offer some prayers for him..Christine
ReplyDeleteOur God is a God of miracles and nothing is impossible with Him. I am praying for the divine healing of your BIL. By the stripes of Jesus he is healed. Amen. Thanks for the post. God bless you all always.
ReplyDeleteIt's sad reading the story about ur BIL, let's just hope for a miracle and its nice that everyone is supporting him in this battle.
ReplyDeleteSometimes the chemo is worse than the disease.
ReplyDeleteHappy Blue Monday to you, Rose!
this is so sad sis! will include in our prayers..
ReplyDeleteprayers for your BIL .. Trust our God and miracle is possible.
ReplyDeleteso sorry to hear abour your BIL sis...my gosh, it is hard to think about it lalo na pag may taning na buhay mo ano...for sure makakasama nyo pa sya sa pasko.
ReplyDeleteA sad post but clearly your BIL is a battler! And in that way your post is inspiring! Wishing your family inner strength!
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Keeping your BIL in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteang payat na nya Rose no?..Sana humaba-haba pa ang buhay nya at hindi yong 6 to 9 months, eh wala na sya... 6 to 9 years, mas okay pa yon...
ReplyDeletesorry to hear that sis! we'll be praying for his healing! hugs!
ReplyDeleteI will include your family in my prayers and hope that there is more time.
ReplyDeleteprayers for him and your family sis..:)
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ReplyDeleteHoping for that miracle and all best wishes to your BIL...
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That's very difficult news for a family to hear! I hope your family can spend a lot of quality time with Uncle Dave - more now that ever!
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Prayers for Bil and all his family ~ are on their way. not easy ~ hardest part of life ~ hugs and namaste, Carol (A Creative Harbor) from RT ~
ReplyDeletebest to your BIL.
ReplyDeleteThe problem, of course, is that the treatment is almost as bad as the disease, as my friend who discovered breast cancer this year mentioned.
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Sending prayers for comfort and strength to you and yours. I hope you get your miracle.
ReplyDeleteOh dear, I am sorry to hear about your BIL yotch. I know how hard it is to see your loved one suffering, slowly. Must give him the joys, faith and prayers of his life now and mind you, he might survive for more months or even years than what the doctor said.
ReplyDeleteDearest Rose, there is always hope. Bernie Siegel has written so many stories of remarkable and unexpected recoveries.
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You and your BIL are in my thoughts and prayers.
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my aunt died cos of cancer few weeks ago. i hope your brother in law will have longer life..visiting from RT
ReplyDeleteThis is a sad news and I will include your BIL in my prayers.
ReplyDeletemany, many prayers sent his and your family's way!
ReplyDeleteWill be praying for a miracle,Rose. Miracles do happen, we just have to believe. I hold on tight to that thought, I can't let go of that thought because I have friends also who are in the same situation. Will be praying for your BIL, sis!
ReplyDeletePraying for a miracle too,
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