I am happy that my youngest sister went to Bicol and got to see my Mom. She took a lot of pictures and I was able to see my Mom even just in photos. I was also able to talk to them for over an hour on the phone. I would have loved to video chat with them but the cellphone signal in the hotel where my sister was staying was very poor. They even have to go out the hotel for me to be able to connect with them.
I am glad that my Mom is getting used to wearing her eyeglasses. She used to suffer with massive headaches and she couldn't figure out what's causing it and finally we told her to go to the eye doctor and it fixed the issue. I feel so bad that we didn't do that early on. That's what frustrate me for being so far away, I can't do things to help my Mom that I would normally do right away if I am there. Living here on the other side of the world is tough especially when it comes to my Mom because I know that she is in her age now where she needs us. My youngest sister works in Manila now so it's also difficult for her to see my Mom often because of her work.
My Mom told me some stuff about my brother that made me upset. The way they treat my Mom is unacceptable. She is no slave to anybody so she doesn't have to do anything for them. If raising them was not enough then what is. I know that my Mom is a very loving and understanding person but some of my siblings just abuse that kindness and it makes me mad. She is now 64 years old and should be enjoying her age without having to think of raising another kid but one of my sisters just don't have the capacity to be a responsible parent. Sometimes, I questioned her decision to continuously help my siblings but I guess that is how a mother should be. She would help her kids no matter the circumstance is. Anyway, all I can do is to support her, after all she raised me to be a responsible individual. I miss and love her very ,much. I wish she would agree for me to bring her here.
I found this video that made me miss the place where I grew up in the Philippines. It makes me happy but feeling homesick.
I found this video that made me miss the place where I grew up in the Philippines. It makes me happy but feeling homesick.
Awww, how great that you got some updated photos of your mom. Cherish them and hopefully you can see her in person soon.
ReplyDeleteAlways great to connect with family, especially if they are far away. I know from personal experience.
ReplyDeleteIt's always tough to be away from family. I'm glad you are able to see photos and talk to her on the phone at least.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure it is really hard being away from your mom. I'm sorry your brother isn't treating her well. Hopefully you can talk some sense into him.
ReplyDeleteThat is so nice of your sister to share her trip with you. Even if it is in pictures you can feel like your right there.
ReplyDeleteI have several friends from the Philipines and I imagine it is tough being so far away from loved ones. Thankfully it's not like the days of old thanks to Facetime and phone calls but nothing beats a hug from mom.
ReplyDeleteAww how lovely you got some new photos and to talk to her, I really hope you get to see her soon.
ReplyDeleteThis is so sweet. It's great that you sister was able to go.
ReplyDeleteIt is so hard to be away from family. I'm glad your mom got glasses and it helped her headaches!
ReplyDeleteI am glad your Moms glasses have helped her headaches. It would be so hard to live across the world from my Mom.
ReplyDeleteI now distance between a person and the people they love can be very hard. At least technology like cell phones and cameras make it a little easier to stay in touch.
ReplyDeleteThis was a very inspirational post. Family is everything and if you're like me, photos are bits of precious memories. I can only imagine how hard it can be living far from your mom. Such a beautiful post.
ReplyDeleteYou grew up in such a beautiful place! Anyway, I understand how you feel. It is tough to be away from your family and the country you grew up in. I am sure your mom is happy for you. I just wish your siblings should understand that they should be the ones taking care of your mom, not the other way around.
ReplyDeleteDistance is never easy when it comes to moving country and staying connected with loved ones. I am glad you were still able to talk to your mom while your sister was visiting her.
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad you got to talk to your mother again. Keeping in touch with family, no matter how far away they are, is so important.
ReplyDeleteThat is sweet and glad your sister got to go. Family is precious and I feel like we should always make time. :)
ReplyDeleteThis is a very beautiful post. Photos always bring back memories. My parents are visiting from Asia, I am so happy!
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful place and a post! I am so glad you were able to hear how everything is going. Distance is so rough!
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