My sister in-law visited us last Wednesday informing us that she is going to put Dad in a home as it is getting harder for her to take care of him. I applaud her for doing it for several months but I know that eventually her body will give up as she is not getting any younger and Dad is getting weaker so moving him around is hard. John suggested to put Dad in a home earlier but they thought that putting Dad in a home is like abandoning him.
The place was nice. The employees seems friendly although we didn't talk to anyone. Dad was sitting in the lounge area when we arrived. He didn't know who we were but he was sure happy to have visitors.
Awww, it kind of bitter sweet that he needs to go to a home. My goal in life is to live my entire life in my own home.
ReplyDeleteIt is hard to see our parents get older. I worry about mine all the time and they are healthy. I hope that he will be happy there and that you will have piece of mind.
ReplyDeleteIt is sad that he has to go to a home. I would want to stay in my own home, but I would understand it if my kids need to move me into a nursing home when I am older.
ReplyDeleteAw, it's never easy having to make this decision, but it is usually in the best interest for all involved. I hope this is a good home that will take good care of your father.
ReplyDeleteIt is so tough making the decision to move family to a nursing facility. I personally wants what is easiest for my kids when I'm older. I hope he enjoys it in his new home.
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like you are making some pretty hard decisions. It's wonderful that you live close enough to visit and spend time with your dad.
ReplyDeletemaking decision was really hard for me, I really want what's easy for my kids
ReplyDeleteAwww that must be tough to have to see him there. It looks like a really nice place though.
ReplyDeleteThis reminds me of my MIL whom I never got to meet. Although it broke my husband's heart to put her in a home, he had no choice. :(
ReplyDeleteIt is always hard to transition a loved one into a home. This looks like a great place.
ReplyDeleteWe are in the process of finding my grandmother a home. It's hard and said but necessary.
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How important and sentimental is this! I love that he is within a home and comfortable.
ReplyDeleteAwwwww glad you found a great place for him!!!! It's always a sad yet refreshing feeling to find the right place. We just went threw this for my hubby's dad
ReplyDeleteYay for your Dad. I'm sure it's not fun to put someone in a home but I'm sure it will be better for everyone in the long Run!
ReplyDeleteThis must be such a hard decision to make..I can't even imagine. It looks like a lovely place for him to live.
ReplyDeleteIt's a hard decision to make, but it's good that you all chose a nice facility for him. It's so hard to see our loved ones fade and get to this point!
ReplyDeleteIt looks like a cozy and lovely place for him to live. Hope he will enjoy his new home
ReplyDeleteIt must have been hard for all of you to finally decide to put your Dad in a home. The important thing is to make sure he's well cared for.
ReplyDeleteIt's really hard to watch our loved ones get older and this is a hard decision. Good luck and stay strong.
ReplyDeleteIt's so hard watching those who took care of us, now needing to be taken care of! It looks like he is in a lovely place, with a loving and heartfelt family.
ReplyDeleteSo heartbreaking. Glad you found him a place and that you go visit often. He might not recognize you but just being there is enough.
ReplyDeleteSo hard to make a decision like this! I have been planning so my son does not have to be feeling guilty and my husband and I can transition when time comes!
ReplyDeleteThis is always a hard time for any family to move elderly relatives. I hope that this is a great place for him!
ReplyDeleteThat was really a sad move but will definitely benefit your father-in-law.
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