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Sunday, November 9, 2008

Tired of Waiting

When I came home from work tonight, here is the scene that I saw with my kids... They're sleeping on the couch, with the head and feet hanging...Gosh, makes me wanna cry... Now I made up my mind, no more hesitation of resigning from work, I really need to do it for the sake of my children.. The money that I am earning isn't worth the time that I have been away from my kids. I'll just finish this year and that's it.. No more working next year, not until my kiddoes are big enough to go to school...

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  1. ohh...they are so cute but, yap, it made me wonder how they missed you a lot and dozed too sleep while waiting for you to come home...if there is no need for you to work,stay home for them girl

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  2. wow, your kids are really CUTE!!! haha, they're positions are funny. :)

    thanks for the comment btw. sure on the exlinks, pls. let me know when you're done linking me so i can do the same. :)

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  3. OMG! nakakaiyak naman ang scene na ito...asan kaya ang ina..hehhe..loka lang...it must be hard for the kids..pero you know what? marami din ina na pabaya sa kanilang anak..all they think about is to make money...I am proud of you sistah for being a wonderful mom...tunay ka ngang ina...mag tutor ka nalang kasi you can keep an eye sa mga kids...au-au manang!

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  4. Hi Amy, if its for us, i don't need to. I'm just working this part time job in ooder to support my mom and sibs.. But of course I have to sacrifice and my kids are my priorities, i think my family back home will understand..

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  5. Thanks Monica... Yeah will popped over to your place when I'm done..

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  6. Thanks sistah demz, yeah I'm ready to give it up... wawa naman kasi mga angels ko hayyyy, hirap ng buhay..

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  7. I agree. I stayed home with my daughter for 10 years. It was tough at times and getting back to work has also been difficult, but it was worth it.

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  8. waaaah i cried. bigla talaga ako naiyak sa post mo.. so sad to go home and see your precious look so abandoned, and to think how much we love them!

    waaaah am such a big iyakin talaga..

    nyways i link your blog to my niko's blog already.. i have u linked at my baby blog too noon noon pa! :D

    oi take care! and kisses to your precious angels!

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  9. was here today...visiting you on a monday morning...

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  10. how are you ate? hope you're day started great..feel love by God...take care

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  11. i agree with your decision,Rose; your family is more important than money, that is the reason why am home. when they grow up, you will have more time to work if you decide to. "no other success can compensate for failure in the home." is our inspiration to stay home with our son esp. me the mother :-)

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  12. nakakdurog ng puso naman yung inuwian mo sis...it's hard to work when you have kids talaga. even though you're ultimately doing it for them, mahirap pag napapabayaan mo naman sila. ako rin eh, i'm juggling an 8 hour night shift work sa call center dito sa pinas while i have 2 kids, a 5yr old and a 1 yr 4 month old. hirap pero it's for them naman. go ka sa desisyon mo, kung kaya naman na hindi ka na mag-work, then don't.

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  13. Hi Rose,
    Sweet Dreams no doubt, you do what you fell yo have to do. Don't let anyone else tell you or feel yho have to conform to what society presses you into. You be in control of what YOU feel it right for you and your children.

    Keep well Rose

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  14. Its very true sistah.. Nakakatouch naman ang mga pose ng mga anak mo ha? BTW, they were left alone sa house nyo while both of you guys are out? Kasi here sa US, hindi puedeng iwanan ang mga bata alone unless there is somebody which is at least 12 yrs old to watch over them.

    Good thing you decided to give up your job Rose, you see family comes first since kids are still too young. Naiyak talaga ako seeing them... holy cow!

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  15. Have an award for u:
    http://cre8tonebabe.blogspot.com/2008/11/power-blog.html

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  17. Hi Rose, your kids are very good going to sleep on their own, no fuss too.
    Looks so cute too sleeping like that.
    One thing about kids, they get sleepy, they just sleep, unlike us, we tend to have worries whatever on our minds.

    Re Sarah Palin, yes, I have read it in your earlier posting....I really like her, and she's very articulate.
    And I think there's so much jealousy about her even from some women.
    It was really unfair and cruel to search for skeletons, look for ways to discredit her...
    especially the US News Netwoork CNN for one.
    To me it was discusting that 8pm news, how they discuss, bisect her like in a Science class....
    to me its because she's a woman. Even Hilary too experienced it.

    Glad our Canadaian TV not that negative about her nor said uncomfortable things too. Canadians are more polite and not that racist as the US Networks.

    IYou are right, Sarah Palin will be back...I like how she called some newspeople "jerks", ha ha.
    She's a fighter.
    Hey Rose, pop over...Lee.

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  18. Hi Sandy, actually I experimented going to work (as part of my reasons why i work) because I want to wean my son from nursing but it wasn't effective so mind as well stop.. Yeah, Mommy's presence is very important with kids...

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  19. Hi Niko, they're not actually abandoned coz hubby takes care of them when I have to go to work.. Its just that I am filled with guild when I see them sleeping when I arrive...

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  20. Hi Grace, thanks for dropping by.. We're all fine over here, hope you are too!

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  21. Thank a lot Ate Cecille, yeah I realized that money isn't worth it so as part of my new year's resolution, i'll give up my part time job.. I gave up my career when I married my husband so I can give up material things when it comes to my kids too..

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  22. Thanks leslie ann, yeah its very hard when your kids are still small.. Mahirap iwanan... I'm sure my family back home will understand my situation...

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  23. Hello Martin, thanks for the sound advice, don't worry I really appreciate suggestions but eventually I listen to my own intuation...

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  24. Hi umma, nope they were not alone.. Hubby takes care of them while I'm at work, nagiguilty lang ako pag dinadatnan ko na tulog na sila sa kakahintay sakin... I will never leave my kids without somebody taking care of them.. That's why I only work when hubby is off.. I actually just work 2 days a week so its not much but course those are too much for them kasi its their first time to be away from me...

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  25. Thanks for the award Little Mummy Princess..

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  26. Hi Lee, its true, we worries about everything... My kids don't really sleep unless they are wore out from playing. They're very hard to put to bed to sleep..

    About Sarah, yeah CNN is like a democaratic channel that's why we don't watch it. I feel bad for Palin coz a lot of this people are really attacking her..

    I'll visit your house Lee...

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  27. hehe, all I can say they are cute with their position hehe.

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